What prompted the move from the US to Qatar in 2005? How did that impact your life and professional career arc?
I came to Qatar to help start an overseas branch of an American university campus because I was excited to have another adventure after growing up a third culture kid in the southern US. Initially I thought I might stay for 2 years and that’s now turned into 17.
You have an interesting intersection of skills & life experiences. You’re a standup comic with a PhD in English and also more recently a filmmaker. You’re essentially a very versatile storyteller who happens to tell stories in different mediums – books, film & comedy. How do you think your childhood or your formative teenage years sparked your interest around storytelling?
My mother took us to the library, whether it was a bookmobile or a brick and mortar location, every weekend. I didn’t realize that everyone didn’t read until I went to college! After so many years of reading, when I moved overseas, writing became a way to process all the thoughts/feelings/emotions I was experiencing – this time as an expat adult, on my own.
What was the experience like taking your one woman show “Being Brown Is My Superpower” on tour at festivals? What were your life experiences best expressed in this form, rather than say in writing or a film?
The COVID pandemic threw a wrench in the launch of the solo show but I was lucky that festivals like the FringeLiveStream and Montreal Fringe, pivoted to online, and all that hard work paid off. Performing on Zoom was a special challenge because you don’t have that live audience reaction to feed off as a performer.
You also have written a number of books in your life. How are you able to produce so much output from a writing perspective? (as people have such a challenge even writing one book)
If you have a story you want to tell, no one else can do it for you. I bring a lot of discipline to writing because I know that women-centric, diverse content is needed in the world and if I can help make that happen, then there’s no room to procrastinate.
You created a short called Me Against the World, which is an interracial collegiate rom-com with a female Indian American lead that screened at several international festivals after getting a ton of financial backing on Kickstarter. Now you’re bringing your 2nd film idea American Baby, which is a look at the ups/downs of 2 newly arrived Indian expats trying to order a beef free taco, and all the chaos and hilarity that ensues. How are these 2 stories connected?
These two stories are part of a larger feature we are trying to make. They’re proofs of concepts that keep expanding the world of the feature, We Against the World. American Baby features the parents of Mala, the main character in Me Against the World, and a vignette when they first arrive in the U.S.
What learning did you take from “Me Against The World” to hopefully help make “American Baby” a success?
If you’re a creative person, you must get comfortable talking about what you are making. Because if you don’t, no one else will.
What’s been a failure (or “learning lesson”) you’ve experienced in the last 3-5 years and what did you learn from it?
Put in the work; the results will come. And have fun along the way.
Where do you see yourself in the next 3 years?
Finishing my first feature and making another one.
What advice do you have to young people today, especially young Tamil women who want to make a living in the Creative Arts space?
Listen to yourself first and foremost; then find people who are experienced ‘experts’ in what you want to do. Take the risky chances now while the stakes are low (no family, no dependents) and the rewards will pay off.
What role has your family & friends played in the choices that you’ve made in your life so far?
This is a big question! I would say surround yourself with people who celebrate taking risks and get what you are trying to do – whether family or friends, zero in on those who will catch your vision.
What do you do outside of work for fun?
We have two kids so they always keep the weeks lively and interesting! Also, now that travel is opening up again, new places and experiences are super invigorating.